At the Potter’s House in Dallas, Texas Bishop T.D. Jakes leads a congregation of over 30,000. In the same state at Lakewood Church, an estimated 42,000 members show up for sermons led by Senior Pastor Joel Osteen. 500 members, 1,000 members, 4,000 members… the numbers tend to be mind boggling when it comes to the size of today’s congregations, especially when one considers the mega-congregations like Joyce Meyer’s once started in some old warehouse, living room or garage. While some persons don’t mind being a part of a large entity of parishioners, others find themselves a bit lost in the whole mix.
Lost for some comes in the form with the fact that they’ve hardly ever seen their church leader up close and in person because they have to tow a line of hundreds just for that old fashioned handshake. Lost for others in large congregations comes in the form of not knowing the members of their church and feeling like disillusioned lambs in the flock.
“I grew up in a small congregation and I always enjoyed the intimacy,” says Claire. “After church, the pastor was able to greet or shake the hand at least one member of each family. I visited many large churches in the Tampa area but none of them are quite as appealing to the smaller ministries where everyone has a chance to get to know each other. I feel like the members of our church are a part of one large extended family. Some people feel like we’ll one day be empty but I know we won’t because you always have babies being born and people marrying into the fold when the older kids tend to go off to college. It’s also easier to remember about 200 people than it is to remember 2,000. Some says there is strength in numbers but when it gets too large there can also be separation in numbers too.”
In Houston, David said that he left a large congregation because he felt it lacked the one on one connection he desired.
“Every group I joined, I felt like they were already well established and had no need for new contributions from people like me,” explained David. “I’ve had more than one occasion where my wife or kids would invite persons to our church and we’d find out that they were members of the church already and it would be like ‘Oh wow, where do you guys sit?’ or ‘Which group are you a part of?’ As a part of the church, we should know who goes there and so if we see each other on the street or in need we will feel more motivated to work with each other.”
“Another thing we had a problem with was the fact that when service was over, we hardly ever got the opportunity even shake our Senior Pastor’s hand and yes, it was a line that security officials cut off after a while so that they church family could head on out. I’ve always hoped for a place where we get to know each other and share our gifts in the Lord but I feel our medium sized church (500 members) serves us fine.”
Sherrell left her mega-church home in Atlanta and moved to The Bahamas when she got married.
“I never realized that churches existed like in every nook and cranny imaginable,” she jokes. “Even like the tent ministry was a bit strange to me because I’m a city girl but I enjoy the small 50 member starter church my husband’s family is a part of. However, I must say though, I see the struggles of paying rent, increasing membership and trying to provide support to the group that can be quite a challenge without the financial support. I think that yes, there are some good aspects to a small church but with a larger church we had so many things such as a daycare, an adult education centre, and even a financial aid system where we could help each other out with car payments or mortgages. With a small church, you don’t get that kind of support.”
Regardless of the size of the church, David notes, what is most important is the size of the praise.
“I think the important thing is to find something that you are more comfortable with,” he concludes. “The magnitude of worship comes from your heart not the members who are worshipping with you. We should make a joyful noise because at the end of the day it’s only a building, when we worship and pray we transform it into a sanctuary of praise.”
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